Commit to date night.
Set a date night once a month. It doesn't have to be expensive -- just some special time with your partner.
Write him a love note.
Love notes and cards aren't just for Valentine's Day. Give him a "just because" love note. It can be sweet and romantic, or sexy and racy. Leave it taped on the bathroom mirror or on the refrigerator so he'll find it in the morning.
Learn something new for the bedroom.
Is your sex life a little stale? Read a book on Kama Sutra or learn a special sexual technique to try out with your partner.
Make a scrapbook.
If you forget what even brought you together some days, it's time to make a scrapbook or photo album and reminisce about your time as a couple. Online albums are great, but nothing beats a good old-fashioned scrapbook. Work on the project together, using photos, ticket stubs, your wedding program and anything else you have that reminds you of special events in your life.
Tell him what turns you on.
Instead of being bored in the bedroom, tell him what turns you on. If you want to be satisfied when it comes to sex, you can't be shy. Let him know what you like (and don't like), and encourage him to do the same.
Get away for the weekend.
You don't need a holiday as an excuse for a weekend together. Rent a cabin in the mountains or a room at a spa resort. Even if you don't go out of town, the change of scenery at a hotel or bed-and-breakfast can give your relationship a romantic boost.
Plan your future.
Instead of drifting through life, sit down with your partner and plan your future. What goals do you want to achieve? Whether you are planning to buy a house, purchase a new car or save for a dream vacation, make a budget and game plan, then stick to it together.
Do something nice.
Do something nice.
Sounds simple enough, right? Small things really matter. Wash his car for him. Pack him a lunch. Bake his favorite dessert. Do something nice for your partner to show your love.
Stop being jealous.
Be secure enough in your relationship to know he's not stepping out on you. Let him have time with the boys without feeling jealous or suspicious. You might find that the less jealous you act, the more time he'll want to spend at home with you.
Engage in PDA.
You don't need to make out in public, but you should certainly show your love. Hold hands, hug, kiss and compliment each other. These little public displays of affection show your spouse that you are proud and happy to be together.
Break bad habits.
Do you smoke? Stop today. Tend to interrupt people? Become a better listener. Do a self assessment and break bad habits that are unhealthy or annoying.
Take up a new hobby together.
Enroll in a cooking course, take a dancing class, learn how to skip, watch football or do anything you both like -- whatever you do, do it together. Taking up a new hobby can get you excited about life and your partner.













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